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Monday, April 24, 2017

(Little Life Lessons with Ngoc): Episode 3 - Just Lie Down on a Hammock

Hey there!

It's me. Ngoc. With episode 3! Let's get right into it!

BUT ACTUALLY.... Let's not. Why? Because our lives are almost always about "getting right into it." 

So let's... just walk a couple of circles in front of the rose garden and gently lay ourselves back on the hammock right next to it and just... breathe. (THAT escalated quickly.) I bet you it's been a while since you've really breathed. Just, do that for me. Please. Okay. Just breathe. A warm breath in. Okay. Good. Now, a warm breath out. There you go! Now do that again for me. Except deeper this time and add some soul. Like, ADD some SOUL. Okay, so in.............. And out.................... Haha. Phew! Okay, so you've successfully released a lot of secular tension. Beautiful.

Now I ask that you look up (from your imaginary hammock) and see for yourself how the clouds rotate in the sky with the setting sun a cuddly warm against your skin. And listen how, how the birds chirp miscellaneously in the backdrop of a soft blowing wind, slightly ruffling your hair. Notice how you can feel individual strands of hair graze against your forehead and cheeks and how it feels almost like, like your mother's fingers memorizing your face. And then look down, at the grass below you, how they too sway with the wind and the verdant green that they possess. The way they move, dancing, always dancing. (I mean, how long has it been since you've last danced?) Now feel the air around you. How cool and playful the wind is against the bare skin of your arms, like an old friend coming by for a visit. And then close your eyes. And sense the light coming in from behind your eyelids, warm and yellow and white and like the grass, they too dance around and over and under and away each other in little circles. Now feel your body drop and fly with the hammock, to the left, to the right, to the left, to the right, left, right, left, right... as you try to memorize these wonderful sensations around you. All of them. You try to memorize all of them.

Beautiful. 
Beautiful.

Just, my god, it's beautiful. 
Isn't it? Isn't it just... beautiful how living means being able to wake up everyday and having the ability to experience all these sensations. Being able to... just stop and just breathe and then... experience. Feel. The. Sensations. Whilst the world around you doesn't stop, you can. It's your life and being alive does not mainly mean money, does not mean grades, does not mean work, does not mean fitting up to ideals, does not mean running until you're out of breath because someone told you to, nor does it entirely mean to absolutely stop either. Because don't forget. There's a thing called "you" with thoughts, hopes, dreams, pains, aches, and wishes. Don't forget that you have you

Living doesn't mean to constantly run or jog or don't sleep or "omg, there's a deadline." 

While the entire world can do that, give yourself some space today, give yourself some time to stop for once (or maybe forever :P) and experience what it truly means to live.

This was Ngoc Nguyen reporting. Signing out to just lie down on her hammock. 



Your girl,
The Time-Stopper/Jaw-Dropper/Constant Grasshopper Ngoc :)

P.S. Wow. I'm already on episode 3! Wow. Just, wow. You know, when I started all this episode stuff, it was just a way to vent my feelings to anyone that would read whether it be 3 or 40 people. (literally. like, that's the stat right now. being 3 people of course. x'D) And, so far, it feels great. I don't know if I'm making a difference but it certainly feels good to sit down and write stuff for an hour. It always feels magical to put thoughts to a blog or to put them anywhere at all really. It feels magical. It really does.

P.P.S. Of course, I had supporters. I’d like to thank my friends, those that say “Hey, you should be a therapist or at least a writer.” SilverRose and my Unni. <3 This shout-out goes to y’all if you guys are even reading this episode. Ouch. And if I have haters, I’d also like to say, “Ouch.” And of course, I’d like to thank this one person that constantly and absentmindedly and randomly reminds me to “blog, Ngoc.” I shall. I shall blog.


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