Optimism and more Life Lessons with Ngoc.

Dear random audience and friends,

      Well, considering the title of this blog, you can tell what this one will be about...

      I'll just start on the frank side of things. Let me first ask you one question. (I think I might just start considering being a therapist. Or whatever jobs that are left over. Heh.)

      Are you happy? Which leads to more questions, such as: Do you have time to be happy? Do you try to be happy? When are you the happiest? Is happiness important to you at all? Are you too preoccupied to by happy? What the heck is happiness even?

      Now let me tell you this. And you may be a stubborn-minded person or easily misguided, but happiness is, indeed, the most important abstract feeling, thing, foundation, call-it-whatever that you must have in your life.

      Today, humans like us don't have time to really consider, really meditate on how satisfied we are with our lives. How blessed we are. How much more we can do to feel satisfied.

      We're all occupied with work, homework, deadlines, and so many other events that clash with our own happiness.

      Why is happiness important? The answer is simple. Happiness is the key to knowing who you truly are. It highlights your strengths and weaknesses. It shows are capabilities. It lets us see past hard times. It brings in the optimism and enthusiasm into everything we do. Solidly, it is the foundation to life. To all life. Sure, we all started out as crying babies, sad, and distraught, but the ultimate goal to life is happiness.

      And what I like to think of happiness is, when you die, you have no regrets. But of course, mind you, have happiness without harming anyone, of course. Don't forget that you have those who care about you and you care about them. Just, don't forget to avoid the kind of happiness that hurts others.

      But otherwise! Be happy! Breathe! And good luck to YOU, on YOUR journey to finding YOURSELF. And live with no regrets. Do it well.


Your favorite girl,
      The Over-Enthusiastic, Over-Optimistic, Amazingly Awesome Ngoc

P.S. (THIS IS NGOC FROM THE FUTURE, 4/26/21: I god I tried to push concepts on others back then. I cringe at this episode because of how much I've deviated from everything I've said here. Finding myself? More like creating myself. haha. Happiness being that important? I still agree that it is but for some reason, I'm more into peace. Hey. I won't discredit 15 year old Ngoc. She was onto something. She was just too young to see more. Beyond what she knew. She has a good heart though, smol Ngoc. A little too optimistic and hopeful but a cutie-patootie. Okay Ngoc from the future outttt)